Feeling Too Broken for God’s Love? Your Heart Can Still Grow Closer to Him

 
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In this episode, I share more about how this truth has played out in my own life — and the steps you can take to make it real in yours.


God is Bigger Than Our Wounds

  • Romans 8:28 (NLT) says, “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.”

  • 👉🏻 God can not only heal our wounds, but use them as a gateway to deeper intimacy with Him. Sometimes in extraordinary ways.

  • There are numerous examples in the Bible of people who experienced major trauma, yet that ended up creating deep intimacy with God.

  • 🧕🏻 Example #1: Mary Magdalene

    • As Luke 8:2 tells us, Mary had been possessed by seven demons.

    • As a result, she was also socially marginalized and spiritually enslaved.

    • Her situation was full of pain and trauma. Everything about her life looked bleak, lonely, and hopeless.

    • But then she met Jesus–who delivered her from the demons. 

    • Afterward, Mary, along with several other women, traveled with Jesus and His disciples (Luke 8:1-3).

    • Mary was also present at Jesus’ crucifixion and was the first to witness His resurrection.

    • Mary’s pain and brokenness brought her closer to God, which affected her personally, but also ended up affecting history.

  • 🐫 Example #2: Joseph 

    • In Genesis 37, Joseph is betrayed by his brothers and sold into slavery. 

    • Just when things start to look up, he’s falsely accused and imprisoned. 

    • As if that wasn’t bleak enough, after Joseph helped the royal cupbearer who had been imprisoned, he was forgotten instead of helped.

    • Joseph endured several accounts of betrayal. 

    • Yet through these trials, Joseph learned to trust God fully. 

    • And ultimately, God ensured that Joseph rose to power in Egypt and became a conduit for God’s provision.

    • Joseph’s broken circumstances deepened his reliance on God. This, in turn, deepened the relationship.

  • 🤱 Example #3: Hannah 

    • When we meet Hannah in 1 Samuel 1, she’s experiencing deep pain. Her greatest desire is to have a baby. 

    • Her husband isn’t very empathic. And his other wife, who does have children, has been taunting Hannah.

    • Hannah is childless, mocked, and emotionally crushed by societal and familial pressure.

    • So what does she do? 

    • She pours her heart out to God in prayer, vowing that if He granted her a child, she would dedicate that child to Him. 

      • (Note: she’s so honest and raw in her prayers that one of the priests in the Temple initially thinks that she’s drunk.) 

    • God hears her and, in response, tells her that she will get pregnant–and she does. 

    • Then when it’s time, Hannah brings little Samuel to the Temple where he grows up to become a prophet.

    • Afterward, God blesses Hannah with more children–three sons and two daughters.

    • Hannah’s heartbreak was real and deep. 

    • Yet instead of it being a barrier to her relationship with God, it led to an ongoing, intimate relationship with Him–plus the birth of Samuel, who would become a prophet.

  • 👉🏻 These three individuals experienced very deep, painful wounds. Yet they weren’t “too wounded” for God. 

  • In fact, in God’s safe, healing hands their wounds actually make them stronger.


Action Step

  • If you want to:

    • Learn how to lean into His love despite your wounds or broken heart

    • Step into God’s healing

    • Learn more about who God truly is and how much He loves you 

    • …then my free quiz What's Your First Step to Fully Experiencing God’s Love? is an excellent next step for you!

 
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